Children's books

Books for the very young, early readers and chapter books, middle-grade books, young-adult books, and books to enjoy as a family. These books opens up talks about emotions and frustration. For a comprehensive list we recommend the Neufeld Institute Children’s Book List

The Sorry Plane

by Deborah MacNamara

The Sorry Plane is a playful introduction for kids and their caregivers to the importance of understanding and respecting our feelings.

I Can Dance My Feelings

by Hannah Beach

This book supports children to express their feelings through play and movement. Includes a facilitator’s guide, a CD with original music and voice over facilitation option.

The Invisible String

by Patrice Karst

The Sorry Plane is a playful introduction for kids and their caregivers to the importance of understanding and respecting our feelings.

ish

by Peter Reynolds

A creative spirit learns that thinking “ish-ly” is far more wonderful than getting it “right”.

In My Heart

by Jo Witek

This beautiful exploration of a child’s feelings stands out as unique, not just listing emotions, but portraying how they feel inside, too.

When Sadness is at Your Door

by Patrice Karst

Sadness can be scary and confusing at any age! Eva Eland brilliantly approaches this feeling as if it is a visitor. 

The Kissing Hand

by Audrey Penn

Deepening attachment links between children and their parents. Helps to manage separation anxiety and other daily times of separation (daycare, school, travel, trips).

The Rabbit Listened

by Cori Doerrfeld

Sweet, elegant example of active listening, what to do when someone is upset, and how to go about recognizing and coping with emotions. 

Mean Soup

by Betsy Everitt

A Child comes home from school frustrated. Parent finds creative way of providing space to express emotions and accompanies down the path of expression.

Lots of Feelings

by Judith Viorst

Alexander knew it was going to be a terrible day when he woke up with gum in his hair. And it got worse …

Angry Dragon

by Thierry Robberecht

When a little boy hears “no” from his mother one time too many, he feels his anger rising. It burns and builds, finally turning him into a giant dragon that destroys everything in its path.

The Chocolate-Covered-Cookie Tantrum

by Deborah Blumenthal

How it feels on the inside of a tantrum. The parent stays to hold the child in futility.

Lots of Feelings

by Shelley Rotner

A face can tell you what someone is feeling. In this expressive photo-essay, simple text and photographs introduce basic emotions and how people show them.

How to be a Pirate

by Thierry Robberecht

A child with his own spirit, ideas and will. Wise grandparents reassure parents of the beauty of knowing one’s own mind and finding his own path.

Neufeld Institute Children’s Book List

Curated by The Neufeld Institute

The booklet includes an extensive index of authors, illustrators, and publishers. Picture books can be easily matched to your needs, thanks to categories that reflect Dr. Neufeld’s attachment-based developmental paradigm.